Warning : Based on a fictitious character. Any resemblance is purely coincidental
Ok, let me confess I love women. They have a very endearing ability of making every small problem big and every big problem very small. So you’ll see them cribbing about how you should go to a doctor if all you have is common cold, on the other hand they’ll ask you to relax every time you flunk an exam, lose your latest gadget or your job. Women bring a certain quality to the conversation which makes it very smooth. They compliment men and complete us in a way no man dog or horse can. They calm us; help us realize that money is not always the answer, that relationships are important, that love can solve every problem. It is very important to have women in your life. None of us can imagine our life without our mother, and our sisters. But once we grow up we feel the need to go out and explore the world, we are no longer comfortable sharing our views, our thoughts with our mother or sister. So we look out for friends, friends who can understand listen or care for us in the same way as our mother or sister did. The relation is not the same, it may be on an absolutely different level but the need is the same. The only glitch is like there is no perfect man, there is no perfect woman, consequently one can never find all the qualities in one woman, so I talk to a different one every week. I find my answers through different women. One might complete my need to be heard, while one might complete me physically. Have we ever complained about having more than one sister, or more than one uncle or aunt? It’s because each of them understands us at a different level. We need each one of them to feel complete, to be fully understood at all levels. One might think that I take advantage of them and do what suits my convenience, but the truth is that if we think that a woman doesn’t understand a man’s intention we are insulting her intelligence. They understand us much better than we understand them, and one can never establish any relationship with them, without their permission. It’s like a gift they have. So stop thinking of women as some stupid species that all and sundry take advantage of. They are much more intelligent that we give them credit for.
So please people I beg of you, let me live in peace and enjoy the wonderfulness of the company of a woman
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At last we hear some well deserved praise! I already feel better about the coming clumsy monday.
Disclaimer: any resemblance to the writer is purely intentional.
A view from the other side: Women like to compliment and complete men. They control their lives in a way they'd not even ever know, taking care of them in a way that they become indispensable to men.But somehow the imperfect woman unlike the imperfect man would not embrace, for the lack of better word, polyandry to seek her every answer. No man would be able to constrain his woman the way she herself would for her solutions lie with just one. Where that one man is brings us to the question of all others we meet on the way. On the peripheries are the men who are ready to take care of us and let us do the same for them till its realized that any one in the duo doesn't answer everything and its time to move on now. This intermittent meeting and mutual understanding with peripheral men goes on till we reach either a point of voluntary belief or a not-so-voluntary compromise. Unfortunately, there is no perfect man, but we still long to seek.
p.s. cynicism be pardoned.
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